Start with the basics . . .

WORK!

You want them to be:

• Industrious workers. (Diligent and busy, not slackers or lazy)

• Self Starters. (No pushing, prodding or aggravation)

• Able to carry a job to its completion. (Including the "finishing touches")

• Doing chores without whining or grumbling. (A delightful quality, it brings harmony and pleasantness into your home)

• Then reaching out to help others. (What a priceless quality this is, and how it delights a parent's heart)

"Laziness is like vinegar to the teeth and smoke to the eyes!" (Proverbs 10:26). It's a harmful quality in a husband or wife, so how much more so should we be careful that it does not take root in our children? An industrious son or daughter is a joy, a lazy one an aggravation. 

My book will show you how to eliminate the Number One Battle between you and your child — WORK! 

Your child will become:

• A willing, uncomplaining, diligent worker who does a thorough job and even does more than asked, without being asked

• Does his/her chores without being pushed or prodded or yelled at

• A self starter who doesn't groan or complain

The ability to be a good worker, carry a job through, and do it well without complaint, is the most marvelous skill one could have. It is a life skill that will take them through thick and thin no matter what life hands them.

Yet most kids never quite learn this concept of why they should be hard working. Many haven't even gotten past the first step of picking up after themselves. 

Problem is, once the chronic scolding (you) and resistance (them) begins, a family becomes dysfunctional. That is why WORK is the focus of my book. It underlies everything else you want them to learn. It is the basis of harmonious relationships rather than combative ones and you will have a calm and peaceful home – an oasis from the world outside. 

No matter whether your child is 3 or 16, these principles apply. The simplicity of how it's presented in my book makes it easy for you to teach it to them in a pleasant, conversational way.

Results

You spend a small fortune outfitting your kids from the neck DOWN. And then you spend another fortune educating them from the neck UP. 

But of what value is it if they 
grow up and can't handle life?  

How valuable would you consider it then to get my book, "Raise Your Kids Right The First Time Around, There Is No Second Chance," to educate their heart, the seat of motivation? It is the heart that defines them as to the person they are, and the person they will become. The mere acquisition of knowledge does not do that.

Don't reinvent the wheel . . . 

By the time you learn whether your method 
worked or not, they are grown and gone . . . 
And precious YEARS are lost!

Do you really want to be saying "Clean up your room" for the next 18 years? Instill that quality in your child at an early age and think of all the years of frustration you will save. How many mothers do you know who are still telling their kids at 16 or 17 to clean up their rooms or pick up after themselves? How much is a peaceful home and peaceful relationships with your children worth? How many years of stress would that relieve?  

At this point you'll likely be thinking to yourself ... "does any of this actually work?"  Yes, It Does!

In fact, the only thing you should be interested in, is the RESULTS you'll see. Nothing else counts. And your satisfaction is guaranteed!.

In the space of an hour or two -- reading my book -- you will gain at least 18 years of experience without waiting for the years to pass! Think how far ahead of the game you'll be with such an incredible head start.  It's solid information all the way through and primarily focuses on work and behavior. It's not just on getting them to do their chores — you can find that kind of information anywhere. I show you how to teach them the concepts and principles that underlie the reasons why work is, and will become, an important feature in their lives, that work and behavior is the basis upon which they attain anything else they want in life. That the satisfaction and joy that a job well done brings is priceless!

And you will know how to instill that pleasure in your child.

You will also gain a new awareness of your role as teacher, coach, mentor, guide and cheerleader for your kids. It will make what you do, easier.  

Get my book "Raise Your Kids Right The First Time Around, There 
Is No Second Chance," today for $19.97 and I'll include...

— FREE — 
THREE VERY SPECIAL BONUSES
With Your Order

BONUS #1 Appreciation and Gratitude   This is key! It is so important. Appreciation and gratitude polishes your children and makes them shine. It is what underlies good or bad attitudes. When you grasp the importance of this basic quality you'll understand why time-outs or restrictions, by themselves, don't cure bad attitudes. This lesson also instills in them an appreciation and gratitude for you and all that you do for them and all that they have. This alone will lighten your load and delight your heart.            (Value: priceless)

BONUS #2 Measuring the Timeline   This is fun for the kids. This lesson measures their "Timeline" and gives them a glimpse of the future. The future is always hard to envision, even for grownups. But this gives them a bird's eye view —a quick snapshot— of the Big Picture, their future, their life. And it helps them to become aware of what's ahead of them and how the things they do now (schoolwork, behavior, attitude, etc.) impacts their future. This builds upon the previous lesson about appreciation and gratitude. Each lesson flows easily into the next — and their knowledge grows.     (Value: priceless)

BONUS #3 Building Their "House"   This lesson continues to build upon the previous ones. It is the third of these three most basic lessons that once you teach it to your kids, you will forever have a "handle" — a simple, kind, and gentle way — for correcting and teaching them all the other lessons and skills they must learn as they grow. Because, the fact is, Mom and Dad, growing up and getting it right is hard to do. (Value: priceless)

These three bonus lessons and the book will instill in your children a sense of responsibility and a caring about what they do and how they behave — you will begin to notice a change in behavior and attitude taking place and be quietly pleased. 

What more can I say? I really want you to have all this material. This isn't something I put together on the spur of the moment or in a flash of inspiration. Over two decades of parenting experience stand behind these invaluable lessons. And with those years came hindsight, knowledge, clarity and, I hope, a measure of wisdom.

I know you love your children, but sometimes it's tough to plow your way through the frustration and workload you face daily. And you hate it when you find yourself yelling. But that only happens because you don't know what else to do because, so far, no matter what you do, nothing seems to change. 

You only have 18 years to be a hands-on Mom or Dad. And believe me, the years fly by faster than you think. (Wasn't it only yesterday your precious baby was born?) Don't let frustration or anger get in the way of enjoying every moment of it. And always remember, yelling is not parenting.

My guarantee. . .

Thank you,

Martha Stevens
raisingkids@aol.com

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